Built Not Born Podcast · 13 February 2026

Hiring, Equity & Happiness: The Founder Conversation No One Has

Chris and Helen reflect on hiring for culture, rewarding key people, the power of long form video and why founders need to define what success and happiness actually look like.

Episode guide

About this episode

In this episode of Built Not Born In Business, Chris and Helen Butler reflect on the lessons that stayed with them after their conversation with Andrew Hulbert, founder of Pareto FM. Rather than simply revisiting Andrew's story, they focus on four ideas that have prompted them to question how they approach their own businesses: the power of long form video, hiring people rather than CVs, sharing success with the team and remembering what all the hard work is ultimately for.

The first lesson is about long form video and why Chris believes businesses are still underestimating its value. A podcast or other long form conversation can create far more than one piece of content. From a single recording, a business can produce the full video and audio episode, short social clips, photographs, blog posts, carousels and downloadable resources. Chris and Helen explain how they are using this approach themselves with Built Not Born In Business, turning each guest conversation into enough material to support their marketing for around two weeks. For businesses that constantly struggle to find time to create content, their argument is that the answer may not be to create more individual pieces, but to create one substantial piece and use it intelligently.

Andrew's approach to recruitment also made a significant impression on them. Rather than placing too much emphasis on a polished CV or a rehearsed interview, he talked about getting to know the human being behind the application. Chris and Helen discuss the difference between a conventional interview, where candidates naturally arrive prepared with their best answers, and spending time with somebody in a more relaxed environment where their personality and values have a better chance to emerge. They also reflect on their own recruitment process and why practical tasks, honest conversations about strengths and weaknesses and cultural fit can tell an employer things a CV simply cannot.

That leads into another idea from Andrew's experience at Pareto FM: giving key people a meaningful share in the success they help create. Chris and Helen discuss Andrew's use of a sweet equity pot for members of his senior team and why the principle resonates with them. They are careful not to present this as financial advice or suggest one structure is right for every company. Instead, they explore the broader question of whether people who make a fundamental contribution to building the value of a business should have an opportunity to benefit beyond their salary when that value is eventually realised. For Chris and Helen, it is an idea they want to investigate more seriously with professional advice.

The final lesson becomes much more personal. Andrew had previously described a conversation in which he was asked to picture his "island": what life would actually look like after years of swimming towards a business exit. Chris and Helen use that metaphor to explore something founders can easily overlook. It is possible to become so focused on the next turnover target, customer, milestone or eventual sale that you never stop to decide what you actually want all of that effort to create.

That discussion leads them into happiness, gratitude and the danger of constantly telling yourself that you will be happy when the next thing happens. Helen reflects on how easy it is to reach one goal and immediately replace it with another without properly recognising what has already been achieved. They talk about family, health, relationships and the things people can take for granted while concentrating on building more. Andrew's reflections on wishing he had spent more time with family particularly reinforce the idea that financial success does not automatically answer the bigger questions about what makes a life successful.

The practical challenge Chris and Helen leave listeners with is therefore bigger than another business tactic. Use long form content more intelligently. Look again at whether your recruitment process reveals the real person. Consider how the people creating significant value in your company might share in its success. But also stop occasionally and ask what your own island looks like. Building a successful business matters, but so does understanding what you want that business to make possible.

Key takeaways

What you'll learn

  • One long form recording can create video, audio, social clips and wider marketing material from the same conversation.
  • A recruitment process can go beyond CVs by creating ways to understand the person, how they work and whether the fit works for both sides.
  • Founders can explore professionally structured ways to reward key people who make a major contribution to growth, including equity or other long term incentives.
  • Exit planning should include a clear picture of life after the sale, not only the financial target.
  • Happiness, gratitude and celebrating progress deserve attention during the building phase, not only after the next milestone.

Questions from this episode

Frequently asked questions

What lessons did Chris and Helen take from their conversation with Andrew Hulbert?

They focus on four main lessons: using long form video as the foundation for a wider content strategy, hiring the person rather than relying too heavily on their CV, considering ways to reward key people who contribute significantly to the value of a business, and taking time to define what success and happiness actually look like beyond the next business milestone.

Why do Chris and Helen believe long form video is so valuable for businesses?

They argue that one substantial piece of long form content can become the source material for many different marketing assets. A recorded podcast, for example, can produce a full YouTube video, an audio episode, short social clips, photographs, blog content, carousels and downloadable resources. Instead of continually trying to think of separate pieces of content, businesses can create once and repurpose the strongest ideas across different channels.

What does it mean to hire the person rather than the CV?

Chris and Helen reflect on Andrew Hulbert's approach of getting to know candidates as people rather than allowing a CV and conventional interview to dominate the decision. Traditional interview questions can produce rehearsed answers, whereas a more relaxed conversation, combined with practical tasks where appropriate, can help reveal somebody's personality, values, strengths and weaknesses. The aim is to understand whether the relationship is genuinely right for both the candidate and the business.

What is sweet equity and why did Andrew Hulbert's approach interest Chris and Helen?

Chris and Helen discuss Andrew's use of a sweet equity pot that allowed members of his senior team to participate financially in the value created when the business was eventually sold. They do not give financial advice or recommend a particular structure. What interests them is the broader principle of finding meaningful ways to reward people who make a major contribution to building a company's long term value.

Why could sharing in the success of a business improve employee engagement?

Chris and Helen suggest that when somebody has a genuine stake in the longer term outcome, the company's growth may feel more personally meaningful. They discuss how senior people are often expected to take additional responsibility and help drive the business forward, so there can be value in exploring ways for those people to participate in the success they help create. The appropriate structure would depend on the individual business and professional advice.

What does Andrew Hulbert's "island" metaphor mean?

The island represents what life looks like after reaching the goal you have spent years working towards. Andrew described being encouraged to stop concentrating only on the swim towards an eventual business exit and think about what he actually wanted once he arrived. That could involve family, relationships, time away, another business or something completely different. Chris and Helen use the idea to encourage founders to define what they are building towards rather than assuming the next financial milestone will automatically provide fulfilment.

Why do Chris and Helen think business owners should define what happiness means to them?

They discuss how easy it is to live with an "I'll be happy when" mentality, where happiness is continually attached to the next turnover target, customer, achievement or personal milestone. Once that goal is reached, another one often replaces it. Chris and Helen believe founders should periodically stop and recognise what they already have, including relationships, family and health, while also thinking deliberately about what they genuinely want their future to look like.

What practical exercise do Chris and Helen suggest for thinking about happiness?

Helen suggests listing three things you are grateful for and three things you believe would make you happy. Her point is that the two lists may overlap more than expected. The exercise is intended to help people notice whether some of the things they are continually working towards are actually things they already have but have stopped appreciating.